Sunday, December 25, 2005

the alchemist

"When a person really desires something, all the universe conspires to help that person to realize his dream," said the alchemist, echoing the words of the old king.The boy understood. Another person was there to help him toward his destiny.

Bicara masalah buku, ada satu buku yang jadi favorit saya sampai sekarang, judulnya the Alchemist, karangan Paulo Coelho. Buku lama, diindonesia kayaknya skr agak sulit carinya. Ceritanya ttg seorang anak muda dari spanyol yang bermimpi berulang kali ttg harta karun di piramid, mesir. Dan diapun percaya pada mimpinya dan melakukan perjalanan sampai ke mesir.
Idenya sederhana, a dreamer young man and his treasure. Tapi didalamnya banyak sekali hal yang menarik. bagaimana ia berulang kali mengalami keraguan antara kembali ke pekerjaan lamanya sbg penggembala atau terus mengambil resiko mengejar impiannya.
I know why I want to get back to my flock, he thought. I understand sheep; they're no longer a problem, and they can be good friends. On the other hand, I don't know if the desert can be a friend, and it's in the desert that I have to search for my treasure. If I don't find it, I can always go home. I finally have enough money, and all thetime I need. Why not?
juga ketika akhirnya ia bertemu dng seorang gadis yang memikat hatinya dan mulai timbul keraguan kembali utk mengejar impiannya.
"I'm going to guide you across the desert," the alchemist said.
"I want to stay at the oasis," the boy answered. "I've found Fatima, and, as far as I'm concerned, she's worth more than treasure."
"Fatima is a woman of the desert," said the alchemist. "She knows that men have to go away in order to return. And she already has her treasure: it's you. Now she expects that you will find what it is you're looking for."
....
"That's why I want you to continue toward your goal. If you have to wait until the war is over, then wait. But if you have to go before then, go on in pursuit of your dream.The dunes are changed by the wind, but the desert never changes. That's the way it will be with our love for each other.
"Maktub," she said. "If I am really a part of your dream, you'll come back one day."
Yang juga cukup menarik juga, adalah latar belakang si anak muda yang berasal dari daerah kristen yang taat dan dia harus melintasi daerah yang banyak didominasi umat Islam.
In just a few hours he had seen men walking hand in hand, women with their faces covered, and priests that climbed to the tops of towers and chanted; as everyone about him went to their knees and placed their foreheads on the ground.
"A practice of infidels," he said to himself.
Yang paling saya sukai adalah dialog2 antara si anak muda dng sang alchemist, spt :
"Why are you called the alchemist?"
"Because that's what I am."
"And what went wrong when other alchemists tried to make gold and were unable to do so?"
"They were looking only for gold," his companion answered. "They were seeking the treasure of their destiny, without wanting actually to live out the destiny."
...
"Why do we have to listen to our hearts?" the boy asked, when they had made camp that day.
"Because, wherever your heart is, that is where you'll find your treasure."
"But my heart is agitated," the boy said. "It has its dreams, it gets emotional, and it's become passionate over a woman of the desert. It asks things of me, and itkeeps me from sleeping many nights, when I'm thinking about her."
"Well, that's good. Your heart is alive. Keep listening to what it has to say."
...
"My heart is a traitor," the boy said to the alchemist, when they had paused to rest the horses. "It doesn't want me to go on."
"That makes sense," the alchemist answered. "Naturally it's afraid that, in pursuing your dream, you might lose everything you've won." "Well, then, why should I listen to my heart?" "Because you will never again be able to keep it quiet. Even if you pretend not to have heard what it tells you, it will always be there inside you, repeating to you what you're thinking about life and about the world."
"You mean I should listen, even if it's treasonous?" "Treason is a blow that comes unexpectedly. "If you know your heart well, it will never be able to do that to you. Because you'll know its dreams and wishes, and will know how to deal with them.
"You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it's better to listen to what it has to say. That way, you'll never have to fear an unanticipated blow."
...
"Does a man's heart always help him?" the boy asked the alchemist.
"Mostly just the hearts of those who are trying to realize their destinies. But they do help children, drunkards, and the elderly, too."
"Does that mean that I'll never run into danger?"
"It means only that the heart does what it can," the alchemist said.
...
Buku ini ditutup dng akhir yang sangat menarik.
Selebihnya silakan baca sendiri yach :)
Yang di spore, buku ini bisa dipinjam di library,
yang di indo, coba tanya2 ke gramedia, dulu saya nemu beberapa kopi buku ini disana.
Yang mau ngirit, silakan download di memoware, yang internetnya lambat, silakan email, saya punya softcopynya.

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

bahasa bahasa

Pertama kali kesini, saya benar2 mengalami kesulitan dng bahasa. Sudah bahasa inggris saya kaku dan pas-pasan, orang sini pengucapan bahasa inggrisnya juga rada gak bener.

Dirumah teman,
S: "do you know where is kapak ? "
A: "Kapak ? What would you do with kapak ?"
S: "I want to park my car"
..ooo... car park.. tho
Di hawker,
A: "I want to have tea without milk"
S: "huh ?"
A: "I want to have tea with no milk"
S: "huh ? hayya..i don't understand... wo.. bla..bla..*ngomel2, pake bhs mandarin*"
A: *bingung, liat ada orang pesen es teh, trus aja bilang* "that, i want that"
S: "ayyyaa... te o peng.. huh.. next time, just say te o peng"
Kemarin ada lagi kesalahpahaman sama ibu kost, waktu crita2 ttg tetangga baru
I: "that new guy was working with ami before"
A: "ami ? who is ami ?"
I: "No, i mean he's working as an ami before he came to spore"
A: "yah...." *sambil menebak2 maksudnya apa sih*
I: "Just like your father"
A: "ic" *alamak... army tho*

Thursday, December 15, 2005

Tentang Nama

"What is the meaning of kurniawan ? "
Itu pertanyaan ibu kost waktu nulis nama saya di kwitansi pembayaran.
"ehh..... ", sambil berpikir keras.. kira2 padanan bhs inggrisnya apa yach, "i think artinya itu kalo dibhs inggris 'blessed' , bu"
(stl liat kamus tnyt artinya "gift from GOD".. nyerempet dikit lah)
"oo.. ic.. kalo 'dody' ?"
"koyok-e kalo ini gak ada artinya deh... yah, nama dari bhs inggris lah"
"ooo..ic... soalnya baru kali ini saya tau ada nama 'dody' tapi orang melayu"
baguslah, berarti saya orang melayu modern dung (sombong nya:) )

omong2 masalah nama, dulu waktu kecil kadang ibu memanggil saya dng "blendik bodong". Blendik dari plesetan dodik...dik...blendik.. kalo bodong dari bhs jawa artinya ndablek, nakal. Gara2nya waktu kecil saya termasuk anak yang suka ngengkel. Kalo disuruh apa2, ngajak debat dulu. Bodong juga berarti menunjuk kebentuk pusar(udel, dalam bhs jawa). Pernah, waktu disebut "blendik bodong", saya langsung liat puser saya, trus bilang "lho udelku gak bodong kok, ini nih yang bodong" sambil menunjuk ke adik saya yang emang udelnya bodong.

Oh ya, waktu kecil saya diajarin menulis nama dng double "d".. jadi "doddy". Sewaktu mau ujian ebtanas SD, bu guru saya heran, kok diakte kelahiran tulisannya "dody". Ditanyakan ke ortu, tnyt baru sadar kalo petugas penulis akte waktu itu salah tulis nama, akhirnya jadilah sampai sekarang satu "d" hilang. Lumayan, bisa ngirit satu huruf.

Ingat serial TV "rumah masa depan" ?.
Nah, katanya waktu SD, wajah saya mirip pemeran sangaji. Jadi temen-temen di SD ada yang memanggil saya dng sebutan "sangaji". Dan ini berlanjut sampai smp. Sampai skr, kalo ketemu temen sd ato smp, ada beberapa yang masih panggil saya dng "ji.. sangaji".
gpp, berarti waktu kecil emang sudah keliatan pinter yach... :)

Sewaktu SMA, gak ada julukan khusus, tapi waktu komik silat "tapak sakti" lagi heboh2nya jaman sma, ada beberapa temen yang menjuluki saya dng salah satu nama tokohnya, yaitu "balung perkasa". Tapi julukan ini gak terlalu populer, cuma beberapa penggemar tapak sakti yang tahu, dan mungkin juga kalo dipikir2 kurang pas gitu... "balung" nya sudah bener, tapi "perkasa"-nya masih dipertanyakan... hahahaha...

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Rumus Tersulit

BB = (TB-110)+((TB-110)*10%)

Tau gak rumus diatas ? itu rumus tersulit yang gak pernah aku selesaikan sampai sekarang.
rumus apakah itu ?
Rumus menghitung berat badan ideal =))...
Bener, serius, maksimal yang bisa aku capai tuh kurang 10kg dari hasil diatas, wah, jauh khan, dan rata2 selama ini kurang 15kg dari berat ideal... hiks..
kayak orang susah yach... padahal ada temen yang makan malamnya dibatasin, cuma sayur2an tapi beratnya gak kurang2 (ada yang merasa tersinggung gak ? ;) ) .....
Olahraga sudah, minum susu sudah, makan banyak sudah.. apalagi kemarin sempet libur 1.5 bulan, tapi tetep aja... gak ada kemajuan berarti...

wondering, jangan2 tuh rumus diatas salah yach, apa mungkin sudah ada rumus edisi revisi :)
mungkin harusnya : BB = (TB-125)+((TB-125)*10%).. nah kalo ini sudah kecapai... cuma kalo bener pake rumus ini, pasti sudah ada yang masuk kelas superweight ... hahahaha....

Sunday, December 04, 2005

Semangat Orang tua

Baru saja berkunjung ke perpustakaan, tnyt sedang ada pameran foto ttg aktivitas orang-orang tua (disini mereka nyebutnya Senior Citizen).
Ada seorang kakek yang memperlihatkan kemampuan wushu, ada yang sedang ikut lomba marathon...gile gak, umur 70an ikut marathon.... ada juga foto ttg sekelompok orang tua yang sedang olahraga dikolam renang, ada yang asyik bermain othello dan catur. Semuanya menunjukkan semangat para ortu berumur diatas 60 dalam beraktivitas. Sepertinya para orang tua disini gak mau kalah dalam beraktivitas dng orang2 yang jauh lebih muda.
Pertama kali kesini, bingung juga melihat banyak orang tua yang masih bekerja, seperti jadi cleaning service, jualan es cream, perawat kebun. Kalo baca dikoran, kebanyakan mereka melakukan semua itu bukan karena butuh duit, tapi kebanyakan karena keinginan untuk terus beraktivitas dan mengisi waktu dng hal positif.
Jadi ingat Bapak, dirumah selalu saja ada yang dikerjakan. Kadang berkebun, kadang betulin mobil, malah setelah Ibu tidak ada, sering saya lihat berada didapur meski hanya untuk manasin makanan. Kalo ditanya, beliau selalu bilang, daripada bengong dan tidak bermanfaat.
Kadang mikir juga, gimana ya kalo aku sudah menginjak usia spt mereka ?